YOU are far more likely to take action and be persistent when you focus on what you want, rather than on what you don’t want.
No matter how negative a situation appears this week, no matter how few choices you think you have, and above all, no matter how others are reacting, always focus very clearly on what you want to happen as an outcome.
Then, more ideas will come to you, on what to do. In addition, you will be in a more positive frame of mind and have more energy to follow through and take action.
(Extract from The Naked Millionaire)