CHANGE the way you talk to yourself. Many people believe the happiness in your life comes down to how you communicate with yourself – your internal dialogue.
Think of phrases you enjoy hearing and repeat them silently to yourself throughout the day. No one else need know you are doing this, except you will have a huge, knowing grin, and feel fantastic.
Remember you have a conscious mind and a subconscious mind. You need to massage your unconscious mind’s ego. Employ a can do attitude and your unconscious mind will instinctively know how to make it work. Do it.
Extract from The Naked Leader.